The shemale dating world is growing in popularity. A lot of this recent growth can be attributed to increasing comfort levels with sexual needs and wants. In other words, the old guard is being ushered away in lieu of a more progressive crowd.
But with a new crowd of folks comes new problems. In shemale dating, there are a lot of common mistakes made. But they can be avoided if you follow our shemale dating tips guide.
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You Want To Dominate a Shemale
I’m gonna break a heart or two with this section, but its, unfortunately, unavoidable.
Many men who are interested in a shemale dating experience have a shemale domination fantasy. The problem is, most shemales don’t share the fantasy. And that can lead to ‘let down city.’
It doesn’t mean that you can’t find a shemale that’s into your fantasy, or is willing to make some compromises. It just means, by nature, it isn’t a typical shemale behavior.
You’ve Seen Too Much Porn
Porn is great, because, it’s porn.
Shemale porn, like all other porn, is intended to operate as fantasy. If you confuse fantasy with real life, your expectations are sure to become sour’d. That’s why it’s important to separate reality from porn fantasy.
The fact is, most shemale fantasy begins by watching porn. This is natural considering that straight men tend to hide this part of their lives in the early stages, even to themselves. So when they get introduced to shemale dating, it’s through unrealistic pornography. And this leads to perplexing interactions on shemale dates.
You have to realize that shemales aren’t porn stars. They are people just like you, just like the girl you dated months ago. If you don’t understand this, your shemale date will go terribly wrong. And you’ll never establish any connection between yourself and your shemale date.
If Your New, Admit It
Don’t try to pretend you’ve ‘been there,’ you’ll get snuffed out rather quickly and then you’ll be deemed unauthentic and untrustworthy. Both of those are qualities that serve to get you banished from the shemale dating community in general.
There is nothing wrong with pursuing the first time. The gentle art of being humble and honest is your greatest weapon. Don’t toss it to the side in favor of your ego.
No shemale wants to hear about how experienced you are. They don’t need a fake braggart. They are looking for a hookup no different than you are.
Conclusion
Shemale dating is dating.
Don’t make it more than it is. Yes, you probably got a lot of ideas and influence from shemale porn. That’s OK. We all start somewhere. Just understand that porn is fantasy and shemale dating is reality. Adjust your mindset accordingly.
And if you’re new to shemale dating, embrace your newness. There is nothing wrong with pursuing a first-time shemale hookup.