You’ve met a tranny on Tranny Hookup. Things seem to be going OK over chat. You feel optimistic. It feels almost as if it’s your opportunity to screw up.
OK, so let’s talk about that. How could you screw up this tranny hookup?
There are ways to screw up what seems like a good thing when you begin a chat with a dream tranny hookup. But here are a few ways you can avoid doing such.
Don’t Get Overly Aggressive On Meeting
Everyone gets it. This is a tranny hookup platform. The idea is to eventually meet in real life and hopefully have a great time. But in the interim, everyone moves at their own speed during the vetting process. This is because people want to be safe, primarily. Second to that, they want to make sure they aren’t wasting time.
We get it, sometimes people play games, ghost you, and whatnot. But you can’t always assume the worst.
It’s OK to try and speed things along. But if you get the sense the tranny you are chatting with isn’t ready to meet, pump the brakes a little. You can always browse for other opportunities while you and the one you are chatting with grow a mutual comfort level.
If you force things, you might seem like a person who doesn’t care about safety. And if they assume that, they may assume you are a nefarious character. And then, well, all your efforts are down the drain.
Keep Your Confidence Up
Whatever got you to the point of even a minor connection, stay the course. Don’t lose confidence. Often, guys will feel they are losing momentum over chat over the course of days or even weeks. And then they will begin to gravel, or question the person endlessly about “what’s wrong.”
The tranny you are chatting with has a life, a job, friends, family, etc. Just because you had a steamy night of chatting doesn’t mean they roll right into that the next day. If it feels like things are dying, rather than getting more aggressive, give way to some space. Allow the other person to consider your absence a bit.
That’s not to say you ghost them. But let them live life. And well, you live life as well. If it is intended to work, it will work.
Suggest Neutral Meeting Spots at First
Don’t suggest that you and her meet at your home. Not right away. Unless you are sure that’s the vibe, it might be too aggressive. Suggest a coffee shop to start, just as a gesture that you want to feel the vibes in person.
Hey, if she seems to want a more intimate place, then you can decide what works. But you should also be cautious yourself. Meeting in a public place to start, particularly one that’s alcohol-free, can help lower risk and ease you into getting to know one another.
You don’t want to be sloshed and make bad decisions on the first meet-up.
Use Clear Sentence Structure
Wait, what?
Grammar matters?
Well, not exactly. Obviously, someone’s personality online can use slang. That’s fine. But clarity is important. Things over chat often get lost in translation. It is supremely important to make sure that’s not the case when trying to establish a sexy hookup.
Just make sure you use simple, clear sentences. Emojis and slang are fine so long as the pertinent information conveys correctly and clearly.