For lots of reasons, it’s wise to quickly meet up with your Tranny Personals interest before hooking up. We recommend a public place, if possible, and nothing too involved (think a cafe or even a walk in a public park). The point of the meeting is to make sure you are both who you claim to be and that the sexual synergy remains when in-person.
Making the place public helps foster a safe environment.
But how should you act and proceed during a Tranny Personals initial meet up?
Let’s look.
Tranny Personals Meet Up (Why We Suggest It)
Our goal at Tranny Personals is to provide a safe, fun, and sexually liberating hookup experience. But we can’t do all of that without your help. If you don’t care about safety, our platform can’t help you in the most effective manner.
While we’d all love to get down to business as fast as possible, an intro meeting helps make sure that you are both on the same page. This helps eliminate flakes, fraudsters, and it can also help confirm sexual attraction.
Best of all, it should not take long. A 20 minute coffee shop meeting is enough to make sure you’re both on the same page.
But what should happen at these meet ups?
Who should pay?
Where should it be held?
How should you dress or act?
Where To Meet
The point of a meet up is to have a quick discussion in a safe place. A safe place translates to a public space. We suggest coffee shops to keep costs down, as well, booze might not be the best initial option as it can make you less reliant on your gut instincts.
Restaurants are poor options because they commonly lead to long, drawn out experiences. You want to be able to cut things short if need be. Plus, a coffee shop experience is already short by its nature.
You are looking for 15 minutes of face time. This should help you determine if the person you’ve been chatting with online is who they say they are. The experience also helps you better understand if you remain attracted to the person.
Who Pays?
If you initialized the meeting, offer to pay for the person’s coffee. They may decline, in which case, you don’t need to force things. Just offering is a nice gesture.
This is why using a coffee shop is easier.
If you arrive early, don’t buy anything until they walk in. At which point, ask them what they’d like and let them know you are taking care of it.
What Questions Do You Ask?
This isn’t a job interview, and you aren’t signing them up for a pharmaceutical drug study. You want to remain basic and somewhat shallow. Don’t get too deeply personal, because that’s often a red flag.
Make some small talk about life. Avoid politics, you’re trying to hook up here, not start a debate.
How To Dress
Dress in the realm of how you normally would, but appear clean. No one wants to hook up with a dirty person. Don’t wear a bowtie unless that’s just how you roll. You want to appear as if you care about yourself. Remember, attraction is about to be confirmed. If you look like garbage, the person may opt to pass on you.
What To Expect
The only expectation you should have regarding a meet up is to talk and see where it goes. That’s it. You aren’t trying to solve world issues, you’re feeling the person out to see if you are attracted to them in person. You want to make sure they show up and aren’t a flake. You want to know you aren’t having your time wasted.
That’s it.
So enjoy the ride, friends.