When you date a transexual, you should approach it in the same way you’d approach dating anyone. But that’s just not the society we live in today (hopefully, we get there soon). When it comes to a first tranny date, you need to consider some tips so that you can improve your odds for success.
Consider The Location
The first date’s location is one of your first big considerations. Where shall you go?
Being it’s a first date, you should avoid noisy environments, at least at first. Dance clubs are awesome and it might behoove you to plan the first date near one, but not initially at one. Get to know your date. Develop a comfort level. Then you can move on to some sexy, sweaty dancing.
It might not be a bad idea to consider an initial coffee shop meeting. Yes, I know, without alcohol this can seem difficult, but you’ll get over it. Maybe have an extra coffee!
Don’t Go Super Sleezy…
I get it, you want to fuck a transexual. I get it, you want a man to fuck your transexual self. It’s good. It’s normal and natural. But I’d still avoid dressing super slutty in the initial meeting. Don’t put the attention all on how aggressive you dressed. And don’t send inaccurate messages.
Remember, this is a first date. You may meet this tranny and decide it ain’t for you (and likewise). Don’t oversell a position you might not end up wanting. Tranny Personals has 1,000’s of profiles, you’ll be fine to go back home and cruise profiles if your date flops.
Dress casual unless you both agree on something else.
Treat Your Tranny Like a Woman
I shouldn’t have to tell you this, but I find it needs to be said a lot.
A transgender woman is a woman, and she’ll want you to treat her that way. That means opening the door for her and paying the dinner bill.
If you fail at this, you’re odds of tranny sex go way down. It’s the same in traditional dating, why would any of this be any different with a shemale?
Don’t Interrogate Your Tranny…
If you start acting like a trans fan or fetish guy, your shemale may run for the hills.
That’s because the trans community is used to being treated like toys and fetishes. They don’t need you adding one more notch to their bad experiences list. If you ask too many trans questions, you might seem like a weird fan.
Don’t Get Super Wasted
In the end, being overly drunk on a first tranny date may make you seem anxious over the fact that your date is transgender. You don’t want to send that message. You need to come off calm and cool, as if you really want to pursue this tranny dating opportunity.
Plus, getting overly wasted signals a lack of control and opens you up to spill out too much personal information. You may offend your shemale date. And that’s no good for anyone.
Conclusion
Yes, you want to have sex with a transgender woman. But treating your shemale like a fetish object will crush your momentum. Choose locations that aren’t super noisy so you can get to know your tranny. Don’t interview her on every aspect of her trans life, that will come out over time as you both get to know one another.